The History & Symbolism Of An Engagement Ring
For decades, couples worldwide have used a stunning diamond engagement ring to show their undying love for one another. Learn about the intriguing history of the engagement ring and why it has become a common sign of love and commitment.
Discover the fascinating history of the wedding ring
The History of the First Wedding Ring Exchange
Did you know that the first wedding rings date back more than 3,000 years? In ancient Egypt, couples exchanged rings made of hemp or reeds—symbols of eternal love depicted in papyrus scrolls. These fragile rings were later replaced with more durable materials like ivory and leather.
The more valuable the material, the greater the giver’s love was believed to be. The circular shape symbolized no beginning and no end, while the center represented the unknown future—just as it still does today.
The history of wedding rings dates back over 3,000 years
The Wedding Ring’s History in Ancient Rome
In Ancient Rome, grooms began giving iron rings to symbolize the permanence and strength of marriage. This practice sparked the shift to using precious metals. Romans were also the first to engrave their rings, often wearing them on the fourth finger of the left hand—the "vena amoris" or "vein of love"—a tradition still followed today.
These traditions continue to evolve, but the meaning remains: eternal love and unity. Here you can learn more about the evolution of engagement rings over time.
- FUN FACT – While most South Africans wear engagement rings on their left ring finger, many Europeans wear them on the right. Why? Because the dominant hand (usually the right) protects the ring better.
Iron rings were given to symbolize unity between husband and wife
Wedding Rings During the Renaissance
In the 16th and 17th centuries, the Gimmel ring—made of two interlocking bands—was especially popular. The couple would each wear one piece during their engagement, and the groom would unite them during the wedding ceremony.
During the Renaissance, sterling silver poesy rings inscribed with romantic verses also gained popularity. Meanwhile, Hindu traditions introduced the bichiya (toe rings), and in Bengal, iron bangles were exchanged instead of rings.
- FUN FACT – Before diamond jewelry became popular, Puritan men in Colonial America gave their wives thimbles as tokens of love.
Highly ornate sterling silver poesy rings emerged during the Renaissance
The Wedding Ring’s Impact on Modern Proposals
Today, a diamond engagement ring represents lasting love and lifelong commitment. As one of the hardest natural materials, diamonds signify strength, unity, and timelessness. Passed down through generations, a diamond ring often becomes a cherished family heirloom—a symbol of the love stories that came before.
- FUN FACT – In many cultures, only women traditionally wore wedding rings. Men started wearing them during World War II to remember their wives while away at war.
A diamond is one of the hardest substances known to man—symbolizing enduring love